First, it isn't quite true as stated. The sums can differ by a multiple of 11, e.g. 979 = 11x89, 9+9 = 7 + 11.
Given a number X, construct another number Y as follows: Subtract the sum of the even-position digits (10s, 1000s, ...) from the sum of the odd-position digits (1s, 100s, ...)
Now look at what happens to Y if you add 1 to X and do it again. If there's no carry, Y has gone up by 1. If there's a carry from the 1s to the 10s, but no further, the odds total has gone down by 9 and the evens total up by 1, so Y has gone down by 10. If the carry extends to the 100s then the odds have gone down by 8 (-9+1) and the evens down by 9, increasing Y by 1, and so on. Y either goes up 1 or down 10. Adding 2, the result goes up 2, or down 9, or down 20, numbers which differ by multiples of 11. Adding 11, Y goes up 11, stays the same, goes down 11, or goes down 22, etc. So when X is a multiple of 11, so is Y.